Community Gathering

Learn, Practice, Integrate

In this 2-hour evening workshop, we use erotically explorative and somatically grounded practices to reconnect with our wants and limits. Within a cozy, welcoming space—soft lighting, blankets, tea—we explore consent, boundaries, and embodied expression through practices like listening turns, waking up the hands, and the 3-Minute Game. Whether you're deepening your practice or just beginning, this gathering offers a gentle container for connection, reflection, and coming home to yourself.

About the Gathering

For more information about the gathering, please see the FAQ page.

  • Confidentiality
    Do not share the names or personal experiences of others unless granted explicit permission. Speak to your own experience and learning.
  • Listen with Respect and Maturity
    Allow others to share and feel with patience by refraining from interrupting, and approach conversations with an open-mind.
  • Embrace a Body Positive Atmosphere
    Maintain an environment of celebrating other's bodies by refraining from opinions, comments and reflections about others.
  • Group Care
    Use the names and pronouns people request, and honor the lived experience of those in the group. Don't make assumptions about people's identities and experiences (eg. regarding gender, race, sexual orientation, etc).
  • Interrupt for Justice
    If something is said or done that conflicts with these agreements or harms you, please address it as it happens if you can. When harm happens in public, we will try to address it in public.
  • Beginner's Mind
    If you have some experience with this workshop or the material, then this is your opportunity to take it deeper. There is always more to learn! Everything we offer is an experiment and an opportunity to notice.
  • Flexible Participation
    Participation can look many ways — join an exercise, witness, journal, take a break, say no to a practice, and change your mind at any time!
  • Space Awareness
    Practice self-awareness around how you take up space — if it's easy for you to step in and share, pause and wait a moment; if you find it challenging to take up space, practice stepping in and sharing.
  • Self-Care
    Self-care and nervous system regulation — take care of your needs for water, toilet, etc; if there is something specific you need, can you find a way to ask for it?
  • Learning Zone
    Notice what you need to stay in your learning zone — take a break, move your body, express something to the group, etc. There is no need for overwhelm!
  • Personal Experience
    When sharing, speak from your personal experience - Use 'I' statements (eg. I feel, I notice, I'm experiencing, etc.). This helps you to notice and take responsibility for your own experience. Please avoid speaking on behalf of others.
  • Honoring Feelings
    Feelings are welcome and do not need to be justified or explained; honor the feelings that arise in others by allowing them to feel without fixing or advising.
  • For Those Curious to Learn
    An introduction to the 3-minute game, taking turns, and discovering how to listen deeply to both others and our own body's wisdom.
  • For Those Who Want to Practice
    Moving beyond concepts into embodied experience, where understanding shifts from our mind into our lived experience through guided exercises and reflection.
  • For Those Ready to Integrate
    This space supports bringing these tools and awareness into your daily life and relationships, deepening your practice beyond the workshop container.
  • A Curated Flow of Hands On Activities
    Introductions
    Listening Turns
    Waking up the Hands
    The 3-Minute Game
    Time to integrate, reflect, and connect
  • A Cozy Container
    Warm lighting
    Soft seating, blankets, and pillows
  • Wellness
    A variety of teas and healthy snacks
  • Donations Are Accepted but not Expected
    We'll remind you of this but encourage you to only donate if you can afford and are "pulled" to do so.

Upcoming Community Gatherings

Community Gathering


7-9pm
Seattle, WA

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What Folks Are Saying

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RSVP

  1. Read the Agreements, Guidelines, and Who It's For.
  2. Send an email to [email protected] or fill out the Contact Form below with your name and the date of the event you'd like to attend.

Then

  1. We will reach with the address and any other information you need.

Contact

[email protected]

206-414-8134